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How Do You Handle Grief?

Liquid Church
Jun 25, 2023

Loss and death are an inevitable part of life, and each of us experiences various forms of loss throughout our journey. Whether it's the loss of dreams, relationships, or the passing of loved ones, grief can consume us and leave us searching for ways to cope. In these moments, it is essential to remember that God is with us, offering solace and guiding us toward healing. We can find hope even in the midst of despair by expressing our grief, confiding in trusted friends, and having unwavering faith.


When faced with loss, suppressing or repressing our grief is not the solution. God wants us to be honest about our pain with others and Him. The Bible assures us in Psalm 34:18, "The LORD is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit." By opening up to friends who can provide support and understanding, we can find solace in shared experiences. Additionally, confessing our grief to God allows us to lay our burdens at His feet and seek comfort in His presence.

In times of loss, it is easy to question God's intentions and feel abandoned. However, we must remember that God works for our good even when we can't see it. He has a plan for us to prosper. He wants to give us a hope-filled future! While our circumstances may be painful and challenging to comprehend, we can trust God's unwavering love and perfect plan for our lives.


Maintaining faith in the face of loss can be challenging, but Jesus encourages us to have an "even now" kind of faith. This means that we hold onto hope and trust in God's promises even amid our darkest moments. In John 11:25-26, Jesus declares, "I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die, and whoever lives by believing in me will never die." Through our belief in Jesus, we can find comfort in the assurance of eternal life and the hope of being reunited with our loved ones. Healing from grief is a process that takes time and patience. It is crucial to allow ourselves to mourn and work through our emotions. There is a time for everything, including grieving. During this time, we can draw strength from God and His Word, which offers comfort and guidance. Psalm 147:3 says, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." God's healing power is available to us, restoring our brokenness and peace to our troubled hearts.

Loss and death are undeniable realities of life, causing grief that can seem overwhelming. However, as believers, we are not alone in our sorrow. God, who cares deeply for us, wants us to express our grief, confide in Him, and find solace in the support of trusted friends. Through it all, we can trust in God's plan, knowing He works for our good. We can have an "even now" kind of faith, holding onto hope and the promise of eternal life through Jesus Christ. In grieving, we find healing and strength as God binds up our wounds and carries us through the darkest valleys.


While we navigate the complexities of loss, let us remember the words of Psalm 30:5, which says, "Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning." Though grief may linger, there is hope on the horizon. In our mourning, let us cling to the truth that God's love and faithfulness endure forever. He walks beside us, offering comfort, strength, and a hope that transcends our earthly sorrows. As we face loss and death, let us not shy away from acknowledging our pain and seeking support. Surround yourself with loved ones who can listen, empathize, and provide a shoulder to lean on. 

Remember, healing is a process that unfolds differently for each individual. Be patient with yourself as you navigate the stages of grief. Seek professional help if needed, as there is no shame in reaching out for support. Allow yourself to grieve, but hold onto the hope that God's healing touch can mend even the most shattered hearts. Trust Jesus; he, too, has been there!


For more encouragement, support, and tools to equip you, we encourage you to check out these additional resources:

  • MESSAGE: To watch Liquid Church's entire message on "Tears & Anger” from Part Four of our Series, “Been There,” Click here.
  • ARTICLE: “Dealing with Grief as a Christian”- Grief and loss seem to come out of nowhere and interrupt our everyday lives. Click here to learn the 3 Steps To Biblical Grieving.
  • MESSAGE: Has your anger ever gotten the best of you? You know that you have to work to tame your temper. So, how do you do this in a Godly way? Click here to learn, “How To Manage Your Anger.”